Put in the EFFORT~

AT THE HEART of the matter, it seems the effort put into romance is more important than the act itself. I wonder why~ As the oft-quoted adage states: It's the thought that counts! It's about continuing to invest in keeping the relationship rich and intresting I guess..=_=". I honestly do that in the beginning. It's as if like we seek one-on-one time with each other..goshh..we are intensely curious about person's life and how their day was. As time goes on,I tend to stop doing that...and I'm fully aware that it can lead to emotional distance. I guess I have to put an Effort in this relationship but talking to him nowadays just making me feel grumpier..ughh! I sure need a LOTS of coffee!!!~ :)