Wednesday, December 22, 2010

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I've learned that it's not what you have in your life,
but who you have in your life that counts.
I've learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know
something.
I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.
I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.
I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.
I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learned that I'm getting more and more like my grandma, and I'm kinda happy about it.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've learned that you should never tell a child her dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if she believed it.
I've learned that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.
I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.
I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learned that if you don't want to forget something, stick it in your underwear drawer.
I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I've learned that the clothes I like best are the ones with the most holes in them.
I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.
I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.
I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves, get farther in life.
I've learned that many things can be powered by the mind, the trick is self-control.
I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.
I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.
I've learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.
I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
I've learned that although the word "love" can have
many different meaning, it loses value when overly used.
I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

I LOVE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE


The way you breath makes me calm
The way you speak makes me warm
The way you see right through me
You make me the girl that I want to be
The way you hold me, I could never feel cold
The way you are, how my heart got sold
The way your nose moves when you speak
The way your eyes looks at me makes me weak
The way you smell, your perfume
It is like to be in Heaven, I assume
The way you taste, better than any chocolate
The way we fit together, it must be fate
The way you kiss me like I want to be kissed
All our moments that forever will be missed
Your humour makes me smile my happiest smile
The way we go together as well as our style
The way we both fight for our love to win
Your honesty makes me believe in everything you say,well sometimes.. :)
The way you drive your car when we are on our way but I prefer when you drive it Slow
The way you smile makes me want to kiss you
The way I am when I am with you, I could never be the way I am today
The way you stole my heart and kept it
The way we belong to each other, we fit
The sweet words that comes out of your mouth
The way I will miss you until the next time we meet
The way we are perfect, together we are complete
All these things I love about you

NOT Your looks or your money
But most the way you love me too
'I love you' is all I want you to say


We are perfect in every way baby.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

ONE DAY


Dear Gabriel,

From the very first moment I saw you I knew that we were destined to be together. It has been so long since a man has captured my attention so fully or made my heart beat this way. Your smile lights up my entire spirit. Your laughter fills me with joy, and your mere presence will warm any room. I have no doubt you are the man Heaven has made especially for me.

Thank you for the comfortable conversations and for asking me to be yours. Most importantly, thank you for sharing your love and wanting to make me your fiancee. No matter how slowly or at what distance our courtship developes, I know standing before God and our future family, vowing to be your partner for life, was the easiest decision I could have ever made.

Each day that passes makes our love for each other grow stronger. Although I know it’s hard for us to be apart, I know it's been rough lately but I promise you that everything is gonna be ok. Our desires will continue to stretch across any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us, and nothing will stop me from meeting you.

You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I miss you more every day. I am here with open arms where you will some day finally arrive... right where you belong.

Love Always,

Ramona

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

My niece~Ãmanda Marissa

isn't she adorable... :)

that's funny :D


My inspiration..................


taken by me



It's memorable day at the beach




HELLOO NEW DAY!~


SHALLOM!~ what a beautiful day to start with..breathtaking sunrise..birds whistling..away from the city..ohh so relaxing.. :) so as a kick off start..I would like to treat myself with a cup of coffee or...~maybe two :)..enjoying the morning breeze..fresh air and a laptop beside me. What could be more soothing..I cant think of any..I guess I'm pretty much gonna stay at home today..Got some chores to do...but,that can wait..why waste this perfect moment.. :) Surfing two website at the same time..well,I gotta say..the only reason why am I still on Facebook is because of the Games! yeahh..baking cakes,crops..mall world..those stuff..I never get bored with it...( so farr.... :) Alone at home but that's ok..my fiancee is off to work..I'm so into chinese food right now..Dumplings...Yam Cake..Kon Lau Men!! ohh well..instant noodles will do.. :)


~My fiancee is a freak about this thing called "NABU",he stuffed that thing into his mouth and let it stay there..the effects? well if you ask me,I felt sooo dizzy when I tried it for the first time...I'm not sure what does that thing do but it sure made me drunk.. He's weird...but I love his weirdness...

~I'm freaking starving...still searching for what to eat for breakfast...Pasta maybe?? hey..I did mention chinese food right????


~My sister's actually started working in Kinarut...

~Christmas is going to be awesome this year...

~ I need a new hair colour....so bad...ughh~


~My niece is 2 years old, and that makes me feel SUPER old....


~ and again,,I'm starvingggg...........................

weeeeeeeeee............:)


Today was a day of letting go of all the things that I thought were before me and surrendering to those things that are already in view and that are ahead of me. I don't know if any of you have been through this but laying down and surrendering are so hard for me. I am a stubborn girl. Not the best of traits but, hey, if you knew what I had been through in my life you would understand. I don't give up easily and I grieve when I have to. Today was a day of giving up. Not necessarily a bad thing but still very painful. One good thing it brought was peace to me and peace to my sweet fiancee that has been putting up with me while I go through this "fun" process. I Love him dearly...:)

YOU.ME.US

.VACATION.

Jane Rovera.ENGAGEMENT.Kinston Gabriel

.BIRTHDAY.

.SIBLINGS.


.COUSINS.